The "Bag-Lady Wedding Emergency Pack"

Hey there Internets, long time no see! Let’s just say that I have been ultra-busy lately and haven’t posted on my blog like a good little girl. If I’m going to be honest with you all I would also say that I have been a GIANT SLACKER about it and completely forgot. Mea culpa. Christmas time (my very FAVORITE time of the year) was superbly busy and completely wonderful, in case you were wondering. Nothing miffed me enough to have to blog about it, in addition to bitching to/at the Hubs. 

Also, during my little hiatus I was a bridesmaid in a wedding. The wedding turned out amazing. It was beautiful and everything a bride could ever want. However, there were times when unexpected issues or needs came up that people were not prepared for – EXCEPT FOR ME! I was super-mega-ultra-bag lady type prepared, and numerous people thanked me for it (after mocking me and dubbing me the “Bag-Lady”). Well the joke’s on you FOOLS because if I hadn't gone all "Bag-Lady" then a bridesmaid’s dress would have been worn with the hem sagging, another may have fainted from lack of nutrition, the bride’s bustle would never have recovered, and a lot of people would have had headaches, rank breath and fallen updos. As a side-note, I am the "Bag-Lady" type in every facet of my life. I would CONQUER ALL in that Bridal Shower game where you check off the items from the list that are in your purse. How come no one ever challenges me to that game???? EVERYTHING is in my purse and/or car, always. A "Bag-Lady" is the grown-up version of a Boy Scout. I have been like this since I was little apparently, as I was called a "little bag lady" since the age of 2. In all fairness, I did bring several bags of necessities (dolls, and candy and such) with me every single time I went to the babysitters.... Ahhhh memories. Back to the topic at hand....

I have been in quite a few weddings in my day, and there are always things that are forgotten. Well, I despise not being prepared and I don’t care if that only solidifies the moniker of "Bag-Lady". I shall gladly dub myself that if it means I am constantly prepared for whatever comes my way – boy scout style with some tweaks. Since I like to be prepared I thought that I should create a Wedding Day Emergency Pack. But I could not just create any old one – it simply had to be the most comprehensive one EVER. I’m an over-achiever like that. In light of how helpful my “Bag-Lady Wedding Day Emergency Pack” was during the last wedding I participated in, I thought I would share my list of contents with the wide world of the Internets just in case someone else wants to be “bag-lady” prepared.

First of all, the amount of items in “Bag-Lady Wedding Day Emergency Pack” requires an actual full-fledged backpack to contain them without damaging your spine. Trust me, I tried several different bags and finally settled on my backpack from school with the padded shoulder straps. My spine stands by that decision. If you want to be prepared for a wedding “Bag-Lady” style you have got to be willing to carry a moderately heavy backpack all day. Now, I didn't actually carry it all day – I just kept it near me and accessible, then carried it from location to location, but you get my drift. It also costs a decent amount to buy all these items if you don’t already have most of them. A lot of mine I already had (I hoard samples and travel sizes), or went the cheap route and transferred some of my normal size version into a travel-size container. I bought a decent amount of travel-size items as well, either because I was out at home, or because it was easier at the time. Either way, I personally ended up spending around 50-70 bucks. Keep in mind that I bought normal size versions of a lot of things that I simply needed around the house and used SOME of it to put in the “Bag-Lady Wedding Day Emergency Pack” (i.e. Q-Tips and Ibuprofen). So you may spend more or less depending on what you keep on hand.

The wedding for which I originally made this list was a winter wedding, sleet and all, so some items will only be applicable to weddings held in similar weather. I have included pictures of some of the items – especially my favorite new find, the iGo Travel Case for pills and smaller items. However, I also added other items to the list which I brought to my own summer wedding. Pick and choose what to include in your own “Bag-Lady Wedding Day Emergency Pack” based upon the situation. Use your noggin. This particular Wedding Day Emergency Pack is not intended to be made into a cute Pinterest-esque gift for the Bride-to-be at her Bridal Shower (although those are super adorable). There are several reasons for this: 1. There is way too much stuff in the BLWDEP and the Bride should not be responsible for it or for carrying it, 2. There is SO much stuff so that you can be prepared FOR the Bride, and other wedding party people (for the Bride’s sanity), and 3. You can try and make it pretty and cute (I tried and failed miserably) but that will simply make it less functional – for my “Bag-Lady Wedding Day Emergency Pack” I’m going for function and preparedness not cuteness. The Bride will thank you. If you want cute, you may want to look elsewhere – you won’t be as prepared, but it will be pretty!  

Here are the extensive and comprehensive (over 100 items) contents of my “Bag-Lady Wedding Day Emergency Pack” (plus items I learned SHOULD have been in it - you get the opportunity to learn from my original stupidity):

ITEM/BECAUSE WHY?/COMMENT or TIPS

MISC

• Toothpicks 
• A Groomsman with leftover salad in his teeth from dinner 
• Twist ties 
• Sometimes things need to be twisted together 
• Stolen from bread bags in my kitchen
• Lighter 
• To build a fire a cook your own dinner, or light a cigarette or any other fire needs 
• Bic. Other brands pale in comparison.
• Hot Hands/Hot feet Warmers 
• You are wearing a knee-length bridesmaid dress and it's 10 degress outside 
• Extra gloves 
• If it's cold enough to just leave your beer outside sans cooler, then you want something to prevent frostbite on fingertips 
• There are some under 2 bucks at Walmart and do the trick
• Camera 
• One must capture the special moments, and the drunken moments where your sister dances like she never has before 
• If you are short on space and your phone takes good pictures, just bring that. Also, do NOT forget the SD card for your camera like I did. Also, the onboard memory of digital cameras fills up rather quick with the high quality pictures they take these days.
• A bunch of small cosmetic bags to separate items into groups so you can find them when needed  
• Unless you like searching 17 hours for something you need in your giant backpack, this is a must 
• I found some cheap ones in the dollar section at Target 3 bucks for two, one large and one small.
• iGo Just in Case Travel Case 
• Because 17 full-size pill bottles take up entirely too much space for my efficient self 
• Found at Walmart in the travel size section. These are now being used in my purse and came in SO handy to put all the meds and small items in: like safety pins and qtips.
• Umbrella 
• Wet stuff falls out of the sky and ruins makeup and dresses 
• preferably the kind that folds to the size of your left thumb… or just a small one for space saving reasons
• Phone charger (car and outlet) 
• Phones do not live forever, and what if one of the groomsmen is missing and the party bus is leaving - someone has to call him 
• Nowadays all phones have the same charger connection (if they are newish) EXCEPT for iPhones because Apple just has to be different. You may want to bring a car and outlet charger with a USB connection port, and a charging cord for both iPhone and those with a micro USB charging port.
• Phone charging battery pack (if you happen to own one, I am lucky enough that I do) 
• There are not outlets or car charging ports available all the time 
• I got mine from the AT&T store and it works fantastic when you have no access to an outlet or car port. Just remember to charge it up beforehand.
• Black Sharpie  
• shoe scuffs and/or a multitude of other uses – like coloring in my white bra that kept popping out from my black dress and would not be tamed by the fashion tape or safety pins 
• Buy a small one, a sharpie mini.
• Travel size bottles and spray bottles 
• For transferring small amounts of body spray or lotion from your large bottles so you don't have to spend more to buy travel sizes. 
• Trust me, it is way cheaper. I have seen packs of these at Walmart in the travel size section for under 2 bucks.
• Mini flashlight 
• You just never know if the lights are going to go out in the hotel or if you are going to misplace your earring during the dimly lit reception and have to crawl around on the floor with a flashlight to find it. 
• I used an LED one the width of a pen and it was about 3 inches long. This I got at Lowe's.
• Cigarettes 
•  if you or the bride/groom smoke – no need to add to today’s stress! 
• Pick your poison, or someone else's…. Not to encourage such a bad habit, but a wedding day is not the time to quit.
• List of phone numbers for all wedding party, or just enter in your cell phone beforehand 
• Someone has to know how to contact the missing groomsman 
• You may want to get this from the Bride well before the wedding - you know when she isn't stressed to the max yet….
• Shoe (full sole) insoles 
• You have to walk all around creation to take the perfect photo, and stiletto heels are definitely not the proper footwear for that adventure 
• Dr. Scholls or Walgreens brand for women's heels - make sure they are the "no show" kind. 
• Heel insoles 
• Sometimes one of the bridesmaid's shoes are a bit too big and that is realized the morning of 
• I got mine on clearance from Target for super cheap. You don't usually see those in clearance though. So if you can't find them, go with the generic version from Walgreens they are awesome.
• Eye glass cleaner 
• if there are tears and sleet and someone wearing glasses, you need this 
• They have travel kits of these and Walmart and/or Target.
• Eye glass repair kit 
• glasses break and some people need those babies to see 
• They have travel kits of these and Walmart and/or Target.
• Flats and/or flip flops 
• The insoles are not sufficient to calm to anger your feet are expressing to you, and you have arrived at the reception so all formal pictures are over and the bride no longer cares what footwear you are rockin' 
• They have those cute little flats in a bag from Dr. Scholls or you can just bring flip flops if it is summer. 
• Scotch Tape 
• It is useful, trust me. I do not remember why, but I used it repeatedly for really random reasons 
• Just buy the name brand, the cheap version just plain sucks.
• AA and AAA batteries 
• Cameras and personal fans sometimes die when you really can't afford for them to 
• Or whatever size batteries your electronics call for….
• Small personal battery operated fan (potentially one that mists as well for a really hot summer wedding) 
• Sometimes the bride and groom decide to marry on a day that makes one sweat like a whore in church which hopefully is not literally the case at anyone's wedding…. 
• Walmart. Thank you very much.
• Multi-tool (knife, scissors, corkscrew, etc.) 
• Because wine bottles need to be opened or they are useless, and I've had to use a knife for many reasons at weddings - legit reasons, not violent ones thankyouverymuch 
• I have seen these sold at both Kohl's and Gordman's. They come in handy for more occasions than a wedding so now I just keep one in my purse.
• Small purse or clutch for the reception 
• because you really don't want to carry a backpack around all night for your phone, camera, cash, etc. 
• Make sure it matches. DUH.
• Zip ties 
• When you just need to attach something without it fighting you 
• You can find these at Home Depot or Lowe's or any hardware store really. You can likely find them at Walmart as well, I have just never looked so I cannot advise that when I do not know for sure. I would never lead you astray you know!
• Clear ponchos 
• When it is sleeting and the Bride wants to take a photo in the middle of a dirty slushy street, you can cut these in half with your scissors and lay them on the ground so her dress stays clean OR you can use them for their intended purpose of keeping you dry in the rain while looking REALLY hip and fashionable 
• Walmart purchase.
• Pantyhose or tights (nude and color bridesmaids or bride are wearing) 
• Sometime clear nail polish just can't handle the run in your hose because it is just THAT bad - I would stick with medium to large sizes on these because too big can work, but too small certainly does not. Pantyhose are uncomfortable enough without being too small. And if you are just buying extras and want them to fit a variety of people, I would steer clear of the control tops too.
• Empty Ziploc bags – various sizes 
• These are just necessary, small things always need to be contained 
• Empty Trash bags (2) 
• Trash should be collected, not scattered about the party bus unless you want to pay a hefty cleaning fee 
• Empty grocery bags 
• Sometimes you need to carry a few things and not your whole Bag Lady Wedding Emergency Kit 
• Mine were from Walmart of course.
• Duct tape  
• because WHY NOT 
• If all else fails, use the duct tape.
• Sandpaper 
• for roughing up the soles of slippery new shoes so no one wipes out on the dance floor or elsewhere 
• I suggest the actual paper and not the sandpaper block as it takes up less space that way. Also, the grittier the better for scuffing up slippery shoes.

SEWING

• Safety Pins 
• If you cannot sew, and hems fall out this is your best bet and they can also be used to pin your bra into your dress so it takes 17 people to get you in or out of it 
• Bring various sizes - you can buy a cheap box of various sizes at Walmart.
• Black and clear buttons in various sizes  
• for tux and bridesmaid dress mishaps 
• You know all those buttons that come with the clothes you buy that you save and never seem to use? Grab a few of them and take them with you.
• White chalk  
• To mask stains on a Bridal gown 
• Keep this in a baggie or things will get dusty
• Velcro circles (self-adhesive) 
• things do not always stay attached when they should 
• I found some at Walmart in the sewing section.
• Seam tape 
• Hems fall out and there isn't always someone who knows how to sew present (I'm not always there to save the day and sew a bridesmaid's lining hem in the lobby of the hotel - I can't go to everyone's wedding) 
• Your local fabric store will have this - some Walmarts (not all) carry it as well.
• Sewing Kit (with thread in the color of: bridal gown, tuxes, white, black, bridesmaid dresses, flower girl dresses, and any other clothing worn by a VIP) 
• Bustles fall out of bridal gowns, seamstresses don't hem bridesmaid's dresses right and the lining is 3 inches below the actual dress sometimes. Or sometimes a groomsman gets hammered and rips 7 buttons off his shirt pretending to be the Hulk 
• Get a good sewing kit that includes at least the following: sewing needles, pinning needles, multiple colors of thread, scissors, safety pins, pin cushion, seam ripper, etc. I found an awesome one at Walmart for like 5 bucks before my wedding - it had more than enough sewing items and came in a handy blue zipper pouch.

FOOD & DRINK

• Small water Bottles (4 at least) 
• A trip to the hospital for dehydration due to alcohol consumption or other reasons is definitely not in the plans 
• The mini water bottles work best unless you want to share germs with everyone and their brother. Literally.
• Soda with caffeine (at least 2) 
• People get tired or have caffiene-withdrawls, which would be me.... Because caffeine is a powerful drug 
• Mini soda bottles are preferable. I found this out the hard way when I brought cans that repeatedly spilled and constantly required being held upright. A bottle you can reseal and toss in your bag.
• Bottle opener 
• You will be drinking unless you are preggers or your religion forbids it and what good is alcohol if you can't get it out of the bottle huh? 
• They sell flat ones that are the size of a credit card, a friend bought one from Budweiser
• 5 hour energys  
• Because it's a LONG day 
• I bought some knock-offs from Walmart and they worked great – at 88 cents a pop I also brought 5 – we used 3.
• Granola bars and trail mix in individual bags  
• for the bridesmaid about to faint from hunger 
• These were from Walmart and were the Great Value brand - very tasty I might add.
• Tiny bottles of liquor  
• Because DUH 
•  sometimes we need liquid courage or calmed nerves. I did not bring these to this particular wedding because we had coolers full of alcohol on the party bus. If that is not the case, I would suggest getting some from your local liquor store.
• Gum 
• Groomsmen with stinky breath 
• I picked whichever minty gum was most compact. Think "space-saving"

MEDICINAL & WHATNOT

• Tums 
• Stomach issues HAPPEN and this is not the time or place 
• Generic works. I've tested.
• Pepto-Bismol chewable tablets 
• Stomach issues HAPPEN alot, and often and this is not the time or place 
• Bringing the liquid version would just be messy, and the chewable tablets work like a charm.
• Alavert D12 or Claritin (allergy medicine) 
• I'm allergic to the outdoors and you may be too 
• Alavert D12 requires a prescription in some locations because apparently that stops the idiotic meth heads from using the ingredients to make meth. I think it just costs me and my legit allergies more time and money, but I digress…. Off my soapbox now.
• Gas-X
• To prevent or repair a bad case of the farts. I don't believe any bride wants their wedding day to smell like the tooty groomsman's chili-fest the previous night.
• The generic version works just fine - this has been Miffed Chick tested on the Hubs, and chili approved.
• Cough drops 
• No one likes the Bridesmaid who couldn't stop hacking on everyone 
• I only brought a handful, you don't need a full bag unless someone has a hardcore cold that you know of.
• Tylenol 
• Weddings are stressful and give me a headache 
• Generic Acetaminophen works the exact same. Same thing.
• Advil 
• Because Tylenol didn't help my headache and has the same potency as M&M's to me (my personal thoughts).
• Generic Ibuprofen works the exact same. In fact, it is the exact same thing.
• Mucinex  
• Someone in the wedding party keeps hacking all over the place because they have phlegm hardcore stuck in their chestal section 
• The generic of this DOES NOT work the same. Buy the name brand if you want results. I'm cheap and I buy the name brand of this item.
• Mucinex D  
• Someone in the wedding party has a phlegmy chestal section AND a clogged nose. Very cute. 
• The generic of this DOES NOT work the same. Buy the name brand if you want results. I'm cheap and I buy the name brand of this item. This may also require a prescription because of meth-head misuse. Check your local pharmacy.
• Emergen-C 
• No one likes to get sick, and in these close quarters, if someone feels it coming on they better load up on the Emergen-C 
• These you will have to mix with water, so the mini water bottles come in handy here as well.
• Vicks Chloroseptic 
• Throats get sore and scratchy
• Do not buy the generic version of this, it does not work. I prefer the cherry version because it works better than mint in my opinion, even though it tastes like death.
• Topical benedryl  
• For allergic skin reactions to God knows what. Hives are bad. 
• Oral Bendryl pills 
• For allergic reactions that require more than the skin cream can handle.  
• The generic version at Walmart sells for 88 cents a box. It is the EXACT same thing as Benedryl. Just make sure you are buying a box with diphenhydramine as the active ingredient. That is benedryl, but cheaper.
• First Aid Kit 
• While drinking and rushing people get stupid and injure themselves and/or others 
• Make sure there are band-aids in various sizes, as well as: neosporin (triple antibiotic), burn salve, eye wash, gauze, tape, etc.

TOILETRIES

• Baby Wipes 
• Baby or adult butts may need some TLC kinda wiping that TP can't handle OR there may not be TP where you are 
• Get the travel pack - generic is just fine
• Tampons 
• Aunt Flo visits at inopportune times 
• Bring various absorbancies, you never know
• Pantyliners 
• Aunt Flo is an evil bitch 
• You may want to bring thong pantyliners as well, if you know you or others will be wearing thongs; otherwise there may be an unfortunate situation of the pantyliner sticking to the person and not the panties. UNCOOL.
• Pads 
• Aunt Flo visits and her host prefers pads 
• I only brought a couple, just in case others needed them.
• Static guard 
• Static is annoying, especially when wearing panty hose 
• Travel size at Walmart.
• Tweezers 
• Splinters, rogue eyebrow hairs, stray upper lip hairs 
• Check your manicure kit, mine included them.
• Blister pads 
• The bride wanted to get a photo at the top of a mountain at sunset and you had to hike in brand new shoes 
• Depending on how bad of blisters you tend to get, you could just add extra bandaids to your pack. If you or the bride tend to get really painful blisters, go with the actual blister pads.
• Alcohol pads 
• something needs sanitizing 
• You can buy a whole case of these at Sam's or Costco.
• Visine 
• bloodshot eyes are not cute in pictures 
• I got the version that is for multiple eye issues, including redness and pain. It was the most bang for my buck.
• Listerine breath strips and/or mints 
• Dragon breath and/or coffee breath 
• The green strips are best for minty fresh breath.
• Q tips 
• Sometimes a lady needs to fix her eye makeup because she shed a tear of joy and sometimes a lady needs to force a groomsman to clean out his disgusting ears before photos 
• Wisps 
• When mints and Listerine strips can't handle the level of stank-breath 
• These portable, water-less toothbrushes come in quite handy.
• Shout Wipes or Tide Stick 
• When alcohol is among us, so are stains. Some brides just can't stay away from red wine 
• I prefer the individually packed Shout Wipes for this type of occasion, because the Tide stick tends to retain certain types of stains and transfer them during the next use. You do not want that on a Bridal gown.
• Mini deodorant (male and female scents) 
• pit stains and BO are not attractive 
• Travel size at Walmart.
• Baby powder 
• At times of high heat this is the only thing that helps, it is great for shoes when feet get sweaty. Don't judge me - you know this happens to the best of us.
• Travel size at Walmart.
• Contact solution and contact case 
• contacts go askew and need to be reset 
• Travel size at Walmart.
• Razor  
• When in a crazy hurry or stressful time sometimes I forget to shave one leg, don't hate. I'm not the only one who has done this I'm sure…. 
• Just one cheap razor will do. I prefer a men's razor because they tend to work better.
• Lint roller 
• pet hair and lint is not pretty on a formal dress or tuxedo 
• Travel size at Walmart.
• Tissues 
• for tears and/or snot 
• Travel size at Walmart - I suggest bringing at least three of the tissues pocket packs. They go quickly.
• Face lotion 
• For those ultra dry days when the scaly skin shows through the makeup 
• I just used a travel size I got as a free gift from Clinique with another purchase. You can also use the handy ones you get from hotel rooms.
• Hand lotion 
• cracked and dry hands are painful and I'm SO not dealing with that on top of being at the bride's beck and call 
• I like the Bath and Body Works travel size lotions, which I of course get on sale. But you could also save hotel lotions and that is free!
• Hand sanitizer 
• There isn't always soap in the bathroom, nor is there always time to find soap and water before you eat. I don't like the idea of E.Coli hands so I bring sanitizer.
• I like the scented ones from Bath and Body Works. I buy them on sale and stock up when they are only a buck, plus I use coupons so they are cheaper.
• Mouthwash 
• gargle away your beer breath 
• Scope has a smaller bottle if you need the space, but if you need the quantity go with the Listerine travel size from Walmart.
• Floss 
• The bride may have a sesame seed stuck in her tooth from the bagel she scarfed down in a hurry for breakfast 
• Usually you can get small floss samples from your dentist and save them. Used one of those for this.
• Fashion Tape  
• to hold down bras or hold strapless dresses in place - NOTE: this only works if you do not have enormous ta-tas, be forewarned. In the case of enormous ta-tas one must use a stronger method of securing things 
• I found this at Walmart as well, are you noticing a pattern?

HAIR, MAKE-UP, JEWELRY & NAILS

• Manicure kit 
• Nails break and snag and get caught on delicate material 
• I bought a cute one in a handy little pink zippered case from the travel section at Walmart.
• Nail polish remover wipes 
• Sometimes broken nails need another chance to be pretty 
• Travel section at Walmart. 99 cents.
• Hair ties 
• These are sometimes necessary because a hair stylist did a bad job, or the wind is an overachiever that day bring various sizes and thinknesses - maybe even some of those tiny rubberbands. They will come in handy
• Bobby pins 
• Wind is rude, rain is rude, and not all hair stylists are as amazing as mine 
• These are the ones that should stay closed.
• Hair pins 
• Wind is rude, rain is rude, and not all hair stylists are as amazing as mine 
• The ones that look like a very skinny letter "U". I have always been confused on this so I figured I would specify.
• Flat iron 
• Bangs and small pieces of hair sometimes must be tamed due to rain, wind and the like 
• Those mini flat irons they sell now would be perfect for space reasons I don't have one of those, but now I'm going to buy one for just such an occasion.
• Curling iron 
• Curls fall out before their time and must be revived 
• I have never seen a mini curling iron, so bring whatever you have. If you find a mini curling iron, please let me know where you purchased it because I totally want one.
• Perfume or Body Spray 
• This is especially necessary for hot summer weddings when people sweat profusely, but sometimes people just stink or need a refresh spray to smell like heaven and unicorns. I wished I had bought a mini spray bottle to put my favorite body spray in so I wouldn't have had to bring the whole stinking bottle.
• Nail polish in the color the bridesmaid and bride are wearing 
• nail polish chips and looks awful when it does 
• I prefer OPI for chip-resistance but it depends on what the bride wants you to wear or if you get a professional manicure. Just make sure the color you bring matches what you wear.
• Small mirror 
• You have to be able to see what you're fixing 
• If there is one in your powder compact, no need to include another.
• Oil absorbing tissues 
• I don't know about you but when it's hot I don't want to be shiny and have light reflect off my oily cheeks in pictures 
• I prefer the clean and clear kind.
• Earring Backs various types 
• When all the bridesmaids earrings match it looks really awkward if bridesmaid number 3 is lopsided and missing one earring. 
• These were included in the Jewelry Repair kit I bought for 5 bucks at Walmart.
• Jewelry repair kit 
• necklaces break sometimes, throw in your grabby drunken friend and it may break quicker 
• Found at Walmart in the jewelry section. It comes in a tiny little case and even has a tiny pliers. In the kit there are: various earring backs, necklace closures, round metal pieces, etc.
• Makeup removal wipes 
• If it's that bad from crying you should just start over 
• I prefer the Neutrogena brand, it gets off all makeup (including waterproof mascara), dirt and oil. It also does not hurt your eyes so long as you don't straight-up rub your eyeball with the wipe itself.
• Aquaphor or some lip balm that can easily be applied with fingers 
• Chapped lips suck 
• Comb with a pointy handle 
• To tame wild locks of hair without jacking up the updos 
• Nail glue/Super glue 
• broken nails and broken high heels can be repaired 
• I like to use the nail glue with the easily resealable cap and bottle. Not the one in the tube because they tend to crack and I really don't want everything in my "Bag-Lady Wedding Emergency Kit" being superglued together.
• Lipstick 
• It fades and that would not make Marilyn Monroe proud 
• You can use q-tips to share if you aren't close to the person and dislike the idea of their germs.
• Eyeshadow (matching bridesmaid and bride’s makeup) 
• If eye makeup is destroyed in a rainstorm or tear-fest 
• I used a travel size compact (free gift from Clinique) that included blush and a couple neutral eyeshadows.
• Hairspray (one large bottle or at least 2 mini bottles) 
• in my experience updos need hairspray refreshers to remain intact and unmoving 
• I love the travel size version of Big Sexy Hair for keeping updos compliant, but if you don't want to spend that amount of cash, go for the Tresemme travel size hairspray from the Walmart travel size section. I prefer the aerosol cans because they do not give your hair a "wet" look.  I went through a whole mini one at my sister's wedding and still needed more. Thank God for another bridesmaid who came slightly less prepared than I - at least she had hairspray!
• Lip gloss 
• some people hate lipstick-  like me for instance.
• Q-tips work for application without sharing cooties.
• Concealer 
• those nasty zits and such - they always seem to pop up at the WORST times 
• If you are planning to share, I suggest bringing a neutral/light color with max coverage. The neutrogena version works well.
• Clear Nail polish 
• for runs in pantyhose or quick repairs to fingernails 
• I brought an OPI top coat so it served the purpose of sealing nails that I just fixed the polish on, and also works for pantyhose runs.
• Powder makeup 
• For crying mishaps and makeup refreshing 
• Try to get a neutral medium color if you plan on sharing.
• Blush 
• For crying mishaps and makeup refreshing 
• I used a travel size compact (free gift from Clinique) that included blush and a couple neutral eyeshadows

Can you think of anything I missed on my list? If so please share in the comments and I will update the post so this list remains comprehensive for true "Bag-Lady" style!